NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE

Tiêu đề: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Sat 25 Oct 2008 - 7:49

LOVE is one of the hot topics in of the human in all the time.
And I guess all of you have fallen in love at least once. Those are the memories of each person, the pretty ones, or not. You need an advice, or simply you need the sharing of others. Why don't we tell us about it?

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Sun 26 Oct 2008 - 8:32

NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE 3dgraphicsloveheart0047yd0.th

Hem… What the coincidence! You know I’m going to give out the love topic next week and now you did it.
LOVE
Do you know what love is? Or can you explain why you love her or him? Have you ever asked yourself why you love him or her not some one else?
Well, I have done a study on these questions and at this moment I’m sharing you about that.
Each of us has an image of the one we love existing as a mental image since we were very young. That’s called “LOVE MAP” – “love map” is the image in your mind which describes the one who you will fall in love looks like.
As a child (maybe 5-8 years old), you did have a love map though you didn’t know what love was.
When you were a child, you met many kinds of people, you watched and noticed when they were talking, running, sitting and laughing, sometimes you paid much attention on some parts of their bodies like : long fingers, big eyes, small nose, long black hair…. Then, these things came deeply into your mind forming generally a mental image of the one you will love. And the image becomes clearer as you grow up. For example: You are a 7 year old child, you have talked and met a lot of people around you, especially, you like your mom’s eye and your friend's mouth, you also love the way your father laughs and the way your teacher gets dressed. All the things you like above will gather in your love map existing in your mind which describes the girl (or boy) has your mom’s eyes, your friend’s mouth and she (or he) laughs like your father, gets dressed like your teacher. During the time you grow up, the image will be added more detail, for example: She (or he) has your uncle’s nose and your idols’ hair…
Then, when you have sexual feeling (about more than 16 years old), you begin to seek for your girl friend, the picture is still in your mind and it is clearer than ever before. Sometimes, you also have dream about the places where and how you will be with your dream lover (though you don’t have girlfriend or boyfriend, just dreaming).
Then,….. one day, you meet a girl (or a boy) that fits the image in your mind (fits the love map), you fall in love with her or him at the first sight. That’s it!

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Sun 26 Oct 2008 - 10:56

Oh, your explanation is very interesting, but I think it's just right for the love at the first sight. In addition, human have many periods of love, for example, at the first time you see him, "he's so stupid, rude, ..." you thought, but through a several times in contact, you have changed your feeling and then, you fell in love with him unconciously.
Return the love at the first time, I have had it, as you said, I have my love map although it not very clear. And I had the love at the first sight, too but because my love map was not very clear,so I had more than... one love at the first sight. hee. lol!

I also have a problem, that is when I and my "partner" recieved the signals from each other, which shows us that both of us have special feeling. And then, I can't do anythings else!!! Could you help me solve my problem. UTYUIRT

P/S : I know my paragraphs have many mistakes, please help me correct it. :)

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Mon 27 Oct 2008 - 9:24

That explanation is really not just for the first sight love, but for all periods of love. You know, when you meet some one the first time, you don’t like him (because he is rude, talkative, smoking abused… ) but then, you have chance to talk more and go with him, you notice and find out the things that your mental image contains (such as: the way he sits or laughs, the eyes….). Those happen unconsciously, you can’t recognize and define what you are thinking, you can just have feeling, the feeling of love. Though he has the things that you hate, but “love is blind”, your love map is not stable, it changes by the time and your feelings.
For example, you hate the girl who has big eyes but the one who makes you have some special feeling inside has big eyes, then your love map will change with a girl who has big eyes…
You have to make sure that you really understand the “love map”, it’s not really a picture itself, it is an active image because it exists in our mind. It includes the activities of your dream lover.
Hehe… You fall in love with more than one girl at the first sight, that’s normal. No one can fits completely your love map, each just has some features of your love map
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About your problem, you and that girl are at one of the first steps of love. This is really hard. I’m not a love expert. Hee..he.. But I’ll try to help. I’m just going to give advice.
Let me think… As my study, when a man and a woman meet each other and exchange love signals like friendly smile, glancing, eye contact, body movement…, they talk as if no one else around and each tries to show his or her best things. When returning home, each feels hopeful but not certain and has a dream that some day they will meet again. “Love fails many times more than it succeeds”. All you should do is to be more self-confident and to try to contact with her and ask for a date, just tell her your feelings. You may fail but nothing to be shy, at least you know what she is thinking and she knows what you are thinking. You’re man who should be the first to take the initiative of making date. Try your best and you may succeed!

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Mon 27 Oct 2008 - 12:47

Master!!!!!!!!!!,

Please receive the deeply thanksgiving from me.
BUT what happens if she refuses me, how wont I be shy?? It seems that I am going to vanish under the ground and never go outside and meet her again.^^
I'm a weak-hearted boy, I can't stand her refusal. I even don't know her name and anythings about her. Many people advised me that I should be the initiative, but I can't. Hic , just a shy boy, more correctly, I'm a rabbit . hehe
Why don't you tell about your love(s),^^. At lease about your opinions a bout love, love in Internet,.... I'm sure you know more about love than I. Let share it.

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Tue 28 Oct 2008 - 0:52

I did correct your mistakes and I'm sorry that there is some sentences that I don't know how to correct. Because if you write like that, it's ok, no grammatical mistakes. The others can understand hehe...
Now, I just want to mention one Grammar issue:
When you want to advise some body to do some thing, you should use SHOULD (just I have done to advice you, hehe..)
* My teacher ADVISES me TO go home and tell my mother about that.
Or * My teacher ADVISES me that I SHOULD go home and tell my mother about that

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Tue 28 Oct 2008 - 9:25

thank you for your interest. Actually, I need a lot helps from dictionary, do you think that's OK, can you suggest any methods to write an essay from your experience.
^^^^^^^^^^^^
Back to our topic,
Who is you perfect man in you mind? Have you ever met the man likes the man in your love map?
Hic, I need some views from you, who is the representative for females, are you ready help me, so I can understand more about womanhood? ghdf

Sometime cause my bad characters, I missed good chances.

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Tue 28 Oct 2008 - 21:29

There are so many definitions about "love"

Historian: "love" is a revolution, to free the single doctrine!
Geographer: "love" is an outburst of earthquake, and the heart is same volcano
Chemist: "Love" is a reaction, and produce acid.
Physicist: "love" is a force, it's more streng than gravitational force.
Mathematician: "love" is a subtraction of money purse, a division of the heart, multiplication of human and a addition of all complex problems.
Writer: "love" is a thick book which I read from first page to last page and don't understand anything...
Cook: "love" is a bottle keep 1 litre of wine and 2 litre of vinega
Psychologist: "love" is same a race. In this game, boy try to purse girl, and the game is over when girl catch boy...
Doctor: "love" is a fighting with Death, between Life and Death.
Musican: "love" is a great chorus, but it'll be boring if repeat too many times.
Psychiatrist: "love" is same lunatic. They can look, listen some thing which a normal can't look and listen. They can smile, cry, happy, angry...without a cause. But they alway think that they are sound mind.
Politician: "love", if we can use it usefully, it can be a bridge to contact 2 inimical country. But with opposite way, it can make a war between 2 country which had friendship before.
Conclusion: Scientific Subjects try to change difficult problems to easier problems, but the love alway make with opposite way!

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Wed 29 Oct 2008 - 11:52

Max, Did you typethis article? I guess "no" ^^.
I think just when you type the article by yourself, you could learn English effectively. Hihi, don't be angry with me, I just want to give an advice.^
Each of us already has an experience of love by yourselves, as least. And maybe they are the memories which you won't never forget until the end of your life.^^ Sharing it to others in our forum? Why not! You're shy? Don't worry, Nobody knows who you are, and if they know, they will sympathize with you, because they're also a human.
Do it, Please!

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Thu 30 Oct 2008 - 12:37

Hyhy... These are some funny definitions I collected. I just translated them to English.
About my own love, nothing to say! Because I didn't a true love (2 people love each other), but I have some unilateral loves. These girls maybe girl neighbor, girl classmate, a girl study beside my classroom... (maybe so much ~.~).
What's cause I love her (or them)? I don't know! Maybe the big and light eyes, maybe nice voice, pretty smile or the way she talking...
I don't think that's love. I think that's "like" not "love". because after see them, I forget it quickly!
Just once! My girl classmate make me can't forget her. I remember this time: 24/12/2002, Yes, that day is Christmas. That morning, wasn't snow ^^, just rain - a drizzling rain. Many tiny rains fly in wind and was lighted by sunlight. This sign make up my girl classmate, she was looks more pretty! And.... ^^! After that....~.~!She's gone away! I can't see her again.
My mother said my destiny will be sad because of women, and I will have to change darling. ~.~!
With "love" and "mother", I have a story
A woman bore a boy. This boy grow up and love a girl. This girl wants to have all his love. She thought and said with he: "Let prove your love with me by killing your mother and give her heart to me". Do you know what he thought? He thought: "My mother bore me, she can't live with me all my live, but my darling can live with me forever..." Finally, he killed his mother and get her heart. He feel happy and run very fast to his darling. Unlucky, he stumbled and fallen, and the heart was gotten out from his hand. A voice from this heart mixed with tear and resounded: "my son, are you hurt?..."

Beside love between a boy and a girl, these is love from "mother" to "child"
What do you think about this story? about this boy, this woman, this girl?
Is it a love?

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Fri 31 Oct 2008 - 4:59

Anh2Long đã viết:: A woman bore a boy. This boy grow up and love a girl. This girl wants to have all his love. She thought and said with he: "Let prove your love with me by killing your mother and give her heart to me". Do you know what he thought? He thought: "My mother bore me, she can't live with me all my live, but my darling can live with me forever..." Finally, he killed his mother and get her heart. He feel happy and run very fast to his darling. Unlucky, he stumbled and fallen, and the heart was gotten out from his hand. A voice from this heart mixed with tear and resounded: "my son, are you hurt?..."

Hey, when telling a story, you should use PAST Tense for all sentences.
A woman bore a boy. This boy GREW up and lovED a girl. This girl wantED to have all his love. She thought and said TO HIM: "Let prove your love by killing your mother and GIVING her heart to me". Do you know what he thought? He thought: "My mother bore me, she COULDN'T live with me all my live, but my darling COULD live with me forever..." Finally, he killed his mother and GOT her heart. He FELT happy and RAN very fast to his darling. Unlucky, he stumbled and FELL, and the heart was DROPPED OUT OFF his hand. THERE WAS A voice from THE heart mixed with tear resounded: "my son, are you hurt?..."
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After reading this story, I have bad emotion inside ( I don't know how to tell).
* There is no love which is as great and strong as the love that mother gives to son. Mother is the one who gives us life, the one who brings us up, also the one who teaches us how to do and what to do. Moreover, mother is the one who teaches what love is. She can work all day without taking any rest for our study fees or clothes we wear and food we eat everyday. She can also spend a sleepless night for our good sleep.... She can do everything for our better lives....
* Well, that man is just a stupid selfish guy. I am wondering that how he could do like that. What a kind of human! If I were him, I would say to the girl that: "How important do you think you are? Mother, I just have one in my life but... You, I can have thousands, maybe better and more beautiful than you twice or thousand times... If you love me, just love my mom and take care of her when I go to work then I will love you more than any body else!"
* I have no ideas about the girl, What a cruel animate!

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Fri 31 Oct 2008 - 5:02

Sorry, I don’t want to tell anybody about my love. What depressing stories!
I do have dream man for myself. He’s very kind, tall, good looking and loves me much more than I love him. ^ ^ . He has a sense of humor and always tells jokes when I am sad. In addition, he must be the one who always considers family as the most important value in life. I have not much friends, sometimes (maybe a lot of times) I feel lonely, I have nothing to do and no one to talk. I’m really scared by that feeling. I even feel a ghost flying behind my back and asking me for a relationship. I don’t want to talk to that ghost and so I cry so much. That’s not a ghost itself, in fact it’s myself! Sometimes, I think I have to fight that ghost, fight myself to be optimistic and happy. But I can’t. So, I dream that someday I will have a man who will never leave me however I am and whatever he has to do.
Certainly, he has to understand me and shares my happiness and sorrows also…… My dream man has a lot of good characteristics. Hee..he I know there will be no man like that. That’s just dream!

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Sat 1 Nov 2008 - 3:39

Piggy Osin đã viết:: After reading this story, I have bad emotion inside ( I don't know how to tell).
* There is no love which is as great and strong as the love that mother gives to son. Mother is the one who gives us life, the one who brings us up, also the one who teaches us how to do and what to do. Moreover, mother is the one who teaches what love is. She can work all day without taking any rest for our study fees or clothes we wear and food we eat everyday. She can also spend a sleepless night for our good sleep.... She can do everything for our better lives....
* Well, that man is just a stupid selfish guy. I am wondering that how he could do like that. What a kind of human! If I were him, I would say to the girl that: "How important do you think you are? Mother, I just have one in my life but... You, I can have thousands, maybe better and more beautiful than you twice or thousand times... If you love me, just love my mom and take care of her when I go to work then I will love you more than any body else!"
* I have no ideas about the girl, What a cruel animate!

Thanks Piggy a lot. they're also my mistakes. Reading you articles and I learn many things from them.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^
You know, I think the story was been told by Max above isn't just a imagined story. Many stories like this story, son or daughter killed their parents because their parents forbade the love between them.
I agree, if they do that, they're really stupid and selfish. But, in other side, we must feel for them, because some of the following reasons:
First, Love is blind, they did an unhuman thing, then, they can't explain why they could done it.
the second, their parent had absurd decisions and they couldn't stand.
Hihi, those are the reasons I think we must deal with for more sympathetically vision with their sins.
affaefaew

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Sat 1 Nov 2008 - 4:12

Piggy Osin đã viết:: Sorry, I don’t want to tell anybody about my love. What depressing stories!
I do have dream man for myself. He’s very kind, tall, good looking and loves me much more than I love him. ^ ^ . He has a sense of humor and always tells jokes when I am sad. In addition, he must be the one who always considers family as the most important value in life. I have not much friends, sometimes (maybe a lot of times) I feel lonely, I have nothing to do and no one to talk. I’m really scared by that feeling. I even feel a ghost flying behind my back and asking me for a relationship. I don’t want to talk to that ghost and so I cry so much. That’s not a ghost itself, in fact it’s myself! Sometimes, I think I have to fight that ghost, fight myself to be optimistic and happy. But I can’t. So, I dream that someday I will have a man who will never leave me however I am and whatever he has to do.
Certainly, he has to understand me and shares my happiness and sorrows also…… My dream man has a lot of good characteristics. Hee..he I know there will be no man like that. That’s just dream!

The man in your dream is a perfect man. Are you looking for a man like this? Maybe you must wait for along time, and maybe waiting him forever.
Why don't you reduce the standard and accept some defects of him?
Could you tell me what are the defects of your boyfriend you can accept?

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Sat 1 Nov 2008 - 4:53

I said that was just my dream. You asked me about my dream man and I answered. Now you said like I was a greedy girl. bucboi

What was in your mind, Mr.Miss?
"Love is blind" as I said before. If there is any one can make me love him, I will accept some of his unwithstandable things. That's it!

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Sat 1 Nov 2008 - 6:08

Hic, sorry piggy, the network had somethings wrong so I can't sign in.

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Sat 1 Nov 2008 - 8:12

Piggy's "darling" (in her dream) is so perfect!
But I'm sure that when she fall in love, she'll ignore all standard she has invented before.
Someone invent many standard for a darling. Most of them are perfect.
With me, I don't invent any special standard about a darling (become my wife), example: pretty, sweet voice,... But, some base requset can't change, example: caring about family, share everything with me (include bad and good things)...
Sometime, I have some dreams like Piggy about a perfect lover. And I don't know what I will do when I love a girl. Maybe I'll accept her bad habits, maybe I'll change her habits or my habits will be changed too... Everything will be changed when we love ^^!

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Sat 1 Nov 2008 - 10:28

Yes, everybody always dream of the perfect love;
that's normal. but we have learn to live with a defect lover.
that's my experience.

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Sun 2 Nov 2008 - 0:16

I fall in love and every body ?

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Sun 2 Nov 2008 - 1:11

kimjongnam đã viết:: I fall in love and every body ?

Hey, What did you mean? Please share! tell us about your lover.

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Sun 2 Nov 2008 - 6:17

Come on Kimjongnam, this is the best way to study English.

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Sun 2 Nov 2008 - 10:01

I think he is a 49th course student (or higher).
I can't understand his sentence. Bush and Piggy are too!
What does he want when he post this sentence?

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Sun 2 Nov 2008 - 19:22

Maybe he want to said: " I have fallen in love and how about you, everybody here?"

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Mon 3 Nov 2008 - 8:04

Anh2Long đã viết:: Piggy's "darling" (in her dream) is so perfect!

Hey, He's perfect but it's not difficult to find. You guys just think again what I talked about my dream man and consider if you can do that or not. If you guys can't do such simple things like that, it seems that you don't love your girlfriend.

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Mon 3 Nov 2008 - 9:19

I had fallen in love when I's just five, can't you believe that.
I loved her eyes, her hair and I wished that I could marry her when I more maturer. ^^

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Mon 3 Nov 2008 - 10:53

nguyenvu.707 đã viết:: I had fallen in love when I's just five, can't you believe that.
I loved her eyes, her hair and I wished that I could marry her when I more maturer. ^^

That's the strongest love i'd listened! UTYUIRT

Did she give you some candys when she met you?

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Wed 5 Nov 2008 - 9:08

The Baby is playing with a doll and what he is doing is just the things of a baby (những việc của trẻ con). He is just imitating the action that his mother or father did with him ( like kissing) to show his love the the doll ( he considers the doll like his friend). That's just the baby's things with a baby's thought. Why do you put the adult's thinking onto a baby's action? lol!

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Thu 6 Nov 2008 - 12:02

Haha, baby do it without their conscious feeling.
By the way, do you know which is the age people fall in love in the first time of their life? And what do you think about the first love in life?
I consider that it's the most beautiful, most romantic love. because that's the love without calculation, without any worry, ... But what is the bad side of this kind of love ?

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Sat 8 Nov 2008 - 5:00

As I told you before, people fall in love at the first sight when they have sexual feelings, they can first feel it unconciousl and that time doesn't depend on the age but the people themselves. Different people fall in love at the different periods of age depending on the things they learn from the adults, their emotion, the attitude, the environment they live in ...
I also think that the first love is the most romantic and beautiful one. However, I wonder whether it is a true love or not because when we first loved somebody, we had neither love experience nor social experience, especially we even couldn't identify what kind of emotion we were experiencing. Somehow I can save the sentence "Love is blind" to describe how the first love is. You can give him or her all your love, all your belonging and even your life without reconsideration. That's why you may be abused. Moreover, when you fail, you may get depressed and sometimes think about killing yourself.
So, on one hand, first love is the most beautiful love which can give you happiness, hopefulness and warmness, which can help you love your life than ever before. On the other hand, first love can make you hate your life than ever before. That's it

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Sun 9 Nov 2008 - 22:20

Hi!

I'm a newcomer here!

I've just looked through your all comments.

We're all talking about "Love". But anyone can help me? Actually, I sometimes doubt whether it's love or not. I mean, how can we differentiate love and other emotional feelings? Maybe we just like or we're impressed by someone's appearance, talents or even some sayings which made us feel as if we're on the heaven... The heart beats much faster and is likely to jump out of the chest. We feel breathless. But, is it love?

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Mon 10 Nov 2008 - 23:55

Welcome our newcomer, hope you like our topics and make them more exciting.

With you emotional feeling, I think that's normal. As I know, the love is usually begin with an impression, and that impression usual is his or her appearance, because at the first sight, you can only feel his or her by your eyes, then if you like his or her appearance, you may manage to talk with him. So the love maybe begun.
So, your emotional feeling is the first feeling of a love, isn't it ?
You know, sometime I also have those feeling, they're enjoyable feelings^^

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Wed 12 Nov 2008 - 3:48

Piggy Osin đã viết:: So, on one hand, first love is the most beautiful love which can give you happiness, hopefulness and warmness, which can help you love your life than ever before. On the other hand, first love can make you hate your life than ever before. That's it

Maybe your above opinion is right, but with me, first love make me more mature, and have more endeavour for my life

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Fri 14 Nov 2008 - 23:55

Anybody here can help me solve my problem, like a girl but can't show to her how deep is my love, not any word. As Piggy has said above, just come and say with her, that I love her, is it too much daring?
Could you ( every body) help me? Is there any difference safer solution? Hic, HeLp ME, please

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Sat 15 Nov 2008 - 10:35

Bush!
I've a idea! I posted a topic, it's "101 romantic things", you can read it and do follow some of them ^^!
After do them, you can talk to her how you love her
ukty

Good luck!

Tiêu đề: Re: NEW TOPIC TO DISCUSS!! LOVE Tue 18 Nov 2008 - 6:11

I had read a article, which has the main tenor that: don't be afraid fail because when you fear, you failed. So I decide to act right now.
You know, I met her this morning, her eyes are so beautiful.

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